Notes

Meetings are not the place to surprise people

When something important surfaces for the first time in a meeting, it usually derails it. A surprise forces an immediate reaction, and immediate reactions are rarely considered ones. People need time to process before they can respond usefully. Bringing something consequential to a group without prior context produces a reaction rather than a decision.

Good meeting discipline means the important things have been shared before anyone sits down together. [[Changelog as a consistent communication tool]] builds this over time: a rhythm of delivery that means nothing in the room is new information. The meeting is then for decisions and alignment, and [[Documenting meetings]] is what makes those decisions traceable after the fact rather than relying on everyone’s memory of what was agreed. [[You don’t have to be the first with an opinion]] is the individual practice that pairs with this: absorbing what the room already thinks before adding to it produces better input than reacting to a surprise.